When this is the case, it hints the desire of objectificacion and confidence issues. Not starting anything, just curious if effei could come back and clear that up. Share Sex after marriage is as good as you setting yourself up for mediocrity. Finally, some men prefer virgins because of their own insecurity:
I usually let them know first thing that I am not into casual sex.
Do Men Prefer Virgins?
Could I tell my new husband what turned me on or what I liked when we first got married? In fact given the way sex is pushed at you from all angles, it is one of the most important decisions I have made in my life. Then again, virginity can function as a selling point. Not entirely. Most women I have met regretted giving it up so soon and I could tell that they were compelled to do so because of societal pressure. Evan P.