So why on earth would you say these words to a person merely based upon an emotional feeling? Meaning, everything you became in the last 20 or 30 years now has to submit to and appreciate everything another person worked on for 20 or 30 years. But if you feel guilty at all for actions, it may be good indication that you are going too far. Talk about your physical actions with each other, making sure you are both comfortable and feeling great. Yes…but soooo much more as well! Keep in mind the reality that God is real.
Also, respect the other person in this!
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How will this man lead you, if he refuses to submit to Christ? Be willing to serve one another. Or his pride may keep him from submitting to the Lord. I remember driving in the car with him and he told me I was an idiot for not believing. Great post! Let him know that you will not change your mind about this, but that you would like to practice building intimacy with some other methods.