I would suggest you do the same. Sounds like he's really insecure about his lack of experience, enough to verbalize it on multiple occasions. The other has to do with behaviour. As someone who does this, listen to this advice. However, when you get your food, you have a fork, a napkin, and a plate.
Hang around them.
Overcoming Your Dating Inexperience
I know what you mean. Happy Clients. What if you are a woman at a party a hotter woman is in the room? It's totally fine not to feel attracted to someone — that in itself doesn't make you superficial or mean. Anyone who tries that will be in jail. Definitely not desperate. I'll probably need a lot of re assurance that you really want to be with me.