This is what 20 years of shedding myths about sex and body size has taught her. To comment on this article, you must sign in or sign up and post using a HubPages Network account. Focus just on penetration. Check out my Dr. A lot of fat women have -- the ACE scores study suggest that at least some cases of obesity are biologically related to childhood trauma -- but I don't need you to psychoanalyze me, to explain to me why I'm fat, or to try and "fix" me somehow. Related Reading: She feels unattractive, but does nothing about losing weight.
As I stood there in front of that jeering crowd, I thought, 'I need a superhero to rescue me'.
The secrets of fat sex
I know a woman or two that has had more than a little trouble adjusting to changes in her husbands size and weight. This tells teenage girls that men expect women to be unhealthy, weak, and superficial, which puts them at risk of developing an unhealthy body image. Or try the alternate-day diet, which is surprisingly easy. Sure, your wife might be less attractive to you in the physical sense. And that is the most important message I tell people: Be kind, because nothing will change unless your wife believes that you are on her side.